Fate or Accident?
Does a perfect soul mate exist!
Or are we fated to meet?
Whether we believe it is by the hand of God or via the process of Natural Selection; the mate we find and get married to and have children with is the most important event any of us will face in life. Which of those two principles we personally believe in and uphold will directly affect the standards of how we raise and educate our children. Our parental influence will have permanent repercussions on their own budding psyches and define the nature of their adult position and happiness in society at large.
The huge question of Creation or Evolution, which has been wrestled with by philosophers and theologians for centuries without general resolution, continues to divide Religion and Science. It also divides and compromises the loyalties of Church congregations and citizens of the State, This Constitutional division is having a confusing effect in state school classrooms – directly affecting the social and spiritual attitude of generations of children. This fundamental conflict of principles is the underlying cause that is effecting the falling standards in education. Until it is settled, which way to go, will remain front and center in the minds and hearts of every parent.
As a parent of a large brood of children, eight of whom I home-schooled myself, the manner in which I arrived at my own choice in this matter may well serve to enlighten you – or it may confuse you even further. For what it is worth I will share my experience with you anyway.
When I was 18 years old I was twice asked the same question that most of us are asked at some point in our lives “Do you plan to find a mate, get married and have kids?” Marriage and kids had never entered my head at that age. Never the less – each time I was asked, I blurted out the same off-the- wall answer. “I am going to have five wives and fourteen kids.” I have no rational explanation exactly where in my sub-conscious that flippant reply was dredged up from I am 70 years old now. The fact is: I indeed ended up having five wives and fourteen children!
Was my fate a self-fulfilling prophecy? Did I manage to manipulate the infinite amount of variables that have taken place with the mates I have selected and parented with over a period of fifty years – and so succeed in making the end result agree precisely with my teenage prophecy? Or did I in some meta-normal way access the relative nature of the Time/Space continuum and see into the future Design of my marital life? Science can only argue that there is as yet no concrete proof of any supernatural event that cannot be repeated and exactly measured. But it cannot therefore assume, by its own criteria, that there never will be any. The whole question of freedom of choice is at stake in arriving at a conclusive resolution.
In my case, since I was educated by scientific methods to see and agree with the logic and supporting evidence of Evolution, and have also experienced the metaphysical reality of the consciousness that underlies all physical manifestations, over the past thirty years I have incorporated a dual brain methodology in child education methodology which includes both principles by fusing the analytical logic of evolution with the intuitive consciousness of the spirit.
Times are changing. Neurological research into the discrimination between Left brain analytical assertions and right brain intuitions is shedding new light on exactly why we have two brains inside our head. We are beginning to understand how the right brain transmits inspired ideas for analysis and possible creative application by the left brain. Those who have practiced right brain drills and exercises and have had extensive direct communication with the right brain harmonic have learned how to tune into atomic radiation transmissions, realize that the huge question of Creation and Evolution are actually two sides of the same coin.
As a consequence, our decisions on whom we mate with and pass on our DNA inheritance has immortal effects on both the physical and meta-physical levels. When two separate family blood lines lines unite, it not only furthers and strengthens the genetic pool of the evolutionary process of natural selection – it also inspires the entire host of ancestral spirits and creatively projects the fate of our descendants into the infinite future.
The pertinent lesson here is that if we include both left and right brain exercises in our children’s education, that more inclusive level of parental guidance may well end the destructive divisions of the present and change the way our next generation of children choose to govern our world.